Tag: Humility

  • Careful Approach

    Careful Approach

    Śrīla Bhakti Sundar Govinda Dev-Goswāmī Mahārāj discusses the proper approach to divinity, and the genuine humility of the true Vaiṣṇavas.

    Mādhavendra Purī expressed the śloka ayi dīna-dayārdra nātha, and Śrī Chaitanya Mahāprabhu said,

     ei śloka kahiyāchena rādhā-ṭhākurāṇī
    tāṅra kṛpāya sphuriyāche mādhavendra-vāṇī
    (Śrī Chaitanya-charitāmṛta, 2.4.194)

    This śloka was expressed by Śrīmatī Rādhārāṇī in the mood of deep separation from Kṛṣṇa, and Mādhavendra Purī also tasted those deep feelings of separation. This is two persons, and here Chaitanya Mahāprabhu is also tasting that śloka. Ihā āsvādite āra nāhi chauṭha-jana, no fourth man can taste this śloka properly. If this is the comment of Śrīla Kavirāj Goswāmī, then where are you, and where am I? Everyone is unqualified. If divine grace will come then it may be possible to touch that śloka sometimes; otherwise, keep it in the museum! There is no other way. Be qualified and take it. This is the proper thinking.

    Ṭhākurera chandana-sādhana ha-ila bandhana (Cc: 2.4.148): Mādhavendra Purī wanted to hide himself, but he could not hide because Gopāl had ordered him to bring chandan, sandlewood. He needed to collect the chandan and if he did not reveal himself as Mādhavendra Purī how would he be able to get that chandan? Therefore he unhappily exposed his own position and told the people of Gopāl’s order. It was proved by Gopīnāth, because Gopināth stole kṣīr for him. This made everyone very enthusiastic to help him and the king’s men arranged everything to send the chandan.

    How can you stop the cheating? That is very difficult. Cheating business is going on in the society of Śrīla Saraswatī Ṭhākur in many places by many persons. They do not even know that they are cheating, which is worse. If they know it is cheating, then there is some hope for them. But they do not know they are cheating.

    The difficulty is ego. Ego is a dangerous difficulty in society. This is existing within the sahajiyā sampradāy: they are thinking, “Yes, I am qualified”.  But Śrīla Raghunāth Dās Goswāmī said,

    āśā-bharair amṛta-sindhu-mayaiḥ kathañchit
    kālo mayāti-gamitaḥ kila sāmprataṁ hi 

    Eighty years have passed, and still I have not got Your mercy. With so much hope I have passed eighty years but still I am ignored by You and I have not got Your mercy.” If Raghunāth Dās Goswāmī said this śloka, then how can we expect to get this type of fortune?

    āśā-bharair amṛta-sindhu-mayaiḥ kathañchit
    kālo mayāti-gamitaḥ kila sāmprataṁ hi
    tvañ chet kṛpāṁ mayi vidhāsyasi naiva kiṁ me
    prāṇair vrajena cha varoru bakāriṇāpi

    Now I am going to die, and if You still do not bestow Your mercy, then what shall I do? Now I shall leave Kṛṣṇa, because without Your mercy Kṛṣṇa is useless for me.”

    Raghunāth Dās Goswāmī showed this type of mentality in old age. In another śloka, he says, “Kām and krodha are attacking me.” In which way will kām, lust, attack Raghunāth Dās Goswāmī? We can say that he is describing this for us, but when he is writing it is not for us; he is not thinking, “I am writing for Govinda Mahārāj”. He is not thinking that, he is thinking, “I am writing for myself”. This is in the Manaḥ-śikṣā of Dās Goswāmī: “I am attacked by lust”. In which way are you attacked by lust? You left everything in young age: jahau yuvaiva mala-vad, Uttama-śloka-lālasaḥ. And now you are such an old man. You cannot digest one cup of buttermilk. But Raghunāth Dās Goswāmī has written this there. That type of writing is so glorious: gurau goṣṭhe goṣṭhālayiṣu sujane bhū-suragaṇe.

    Śrīla Saraswatī Ṭhākur and Śrīla Guru Mahārāj were in the same place and same rank in their realisation. What I have got from his lotus feet I can only say a little bit about. And they are not cheating. If tears would come in their eyes they would think it is false. They are actually real tears for Rādhā-Kṛṣṇa, real tears for Kṛṣṇa, but they are checking them and saying that it is false. They are telling themselves, their own selves, that, “It is false, it is impossible, how will it come to me? I am unqualified.”

    In his last days Śrīla Guru Maharaj was always saying, “Nitāi, Nitāi.” He is Śrīla Rūpa Goswāmī’s man. Everyone knows he is Rūpa Goswāmī’s man, so why was he telling, “Dayāl Nitāi, dayāl Nitāi”? He can say ‘Mahāprabhu’ at least, but he was not going up to that. He was living within the zone of Saṅkarṣaṇ and not going to Rādhā-Kṛṣṇa, even though he is actually living within those Pastimes. When Śrīla Saraswatī Ṭhākur gave charge to him, and when Śrīla Saraswatī Ṭhākur wanted to hear from him, then we must believe that he is living within that zone. And how strongly did Saraswatī Ṭhākur give opposition when the secretary ordered someone else to chant it! Saraswatī Ṭhākur stopped it, “No, no one here is qualified to sing this song; only Śrīdhar Mahārāj can do it. I want to hear from Śrīdhar Mahārāj.”

    I do not want to make anyone hopeless, but I want to be perfect and I want to see that our society is perfect all around. I understand that this is not possible, but still, to hope is not bad. Today we may not get it but one day we will be enriched with pure devotion. This is because the seed of Kṛṣṇa consciousness is a very high standard seed. That is why we are giving this connection: today or tomorrow, they must get it. It has no limit in time, space, or anything like that. Very unqualified persons will also be enriched. That is possible. It is like lottery money. Rickshaw wallahs and others may win the lottery, and they are becoming rich.

    This article is a continuation of the post Jay Mā Kali.

    Source

    Spoken in Italy, September 2000, during His Divine Grace’s 16th World Tour.

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    gurau goṣṭhe goṣṭhālayiṣu sujane bhū-suragaṇe
    sva-mantre śrī-nāmni vraja-nava-yuva-dvandva-śaraṇe
    sadā dambhaṁ hitvā kuru ratim apūrvām atitarām
    aye svāntar bhrātaś chaṭubhir abhiyāche dhṛta-padaḥ

    (Manaḥ-śikṣā: 1)

    Oh mind, I grasp your feet and beg you with sweet words: please cast away all hypocrisy and develop intense, unprecedented love for the spiritual master, Vrajabhūmi, the residents of Vraja, the pure Vaiṣṇavas, the brāhmaṇas, the gayatrī mantra, the Holy Name, and the transcendental shelter that is the fresh young couple of Vraja, Śrī Śrī Rādhā-Kṛṣṇa.”

    asach-cheṣṭā-kaṣṭa-prada-vikaṭa-pāśālibhir iha
    prakāmaṁ kāmādi-prakaṭa-pathapāti-vyatikaraiḥ
    gale baddhvā hanye ’ham iti bakabhid-vartmapa-gaṇe
    kuru tvaṁ phutkārān avati sa yathā tvaṁ mana itaḥ
    (Manaḥ-śikṣā: 5)

    I am being bound tightly around the neck by the fearsome highwaymen of lust, anger, and so forth with the painful, fearsome ropes of my wicked deeds; I am being killed!” Cry out in this way to the Vaiṣṇavas, the guardians on the path to Kṛṣṇa, the slayer of Baka, so that they save you from these foes, O mind!”

    yo dustyajān dāra-sutān
    suhṛd-rājyaṁ hṛdi-spṛśaḥ
    jahau yuvaiva mala-vad
    uttama-śloka-lālasaḥ
    (Śrīmad Bhāgavatam, 5.14.43)

    Being very eager to gain the association of Lord Kṛṣṇa, King Bharat, although in the prime of youth, gave up his very attractive wife, affectionate children, most beloved friends and opulent kingdom, exactly as one gives up stool after excreting it.”

  • Slow and Steady

    Slow and Steady

    Śrīla Bhakti Rakṣak Śrīdhar Dev-Goswāmī Mahārāj discusses the tṛṇād api principles in depth.

    amāninā mānadena kīrtanīyaḥ sadā hariḥ

    We should take resort to kīrtan always, but Mahāprabhu recommends that our attitude should be such: tṛṇād api sunīcha, taror api sahiṣṇu, amānī mānada. It is generally upwards, all towards high. Our attitude will be humble, and if we think that we are being done wrong still also we shall take to patience. Amānī, under no circumstances shall we work for our own position and prestige. That should not be our aim.

    Amāninā mānadena, and we shall try to respect everybody. It is all mostly connected towards the upper world, towards the Vaiṣṇava world. Tṛṇād api sunīcha, taror api sahiṣṇu, amānī mānada. Our conduct will be always like that, and then only can we thrive well in our campaign.

    Slow and steady wins the race: it is a long journey, not a journey to finish within a few hours, or few days, or few years. It is a continued appointment. It is to go on a long way, so we are to adjust accordingly. It is not that we shall run quickly and then we shall stop and sleep, it is not a matter of that type. But it is a long way: we shall have to walk on, and so our attitude will be such, then we will be successful.

    Tṛṇād api sunīcha, we should not extend any cause for resistance, which will create resistance. We won’t create such circumstance that invite resistance. Taror api sahiṣṇu: still, if any resistance unexpectedly approaches me, I shall try my best to forbear, being conscious that my guardian’s eye is over me. He is also eager to help me in my campaign. I am not alone; I may go on confident that there is a person above to redress any wrong that can be shown to me. So I may not take initiative in the beginning.

    Amāninā, and I won’t allow any other object to come and pollute my aim, the pure purpose of my life. I will have such purity of purpose. The pratiṣṭhā will come, or any other temptation will come, and induce me to go ahead—I won’t, I should never allow anything other than the satisfaction of Guru, Gaurāṅga, Vaiṣṇava, etc. No other element can enter there on my path. The purity of purpose will always be maintained very scrupulously.

    Mānadena, and I won’t shrink to give proper conduct, to show proper conduct to my environment. That is, I won’t expect that they will come and help me. Amāninā mānadena, I won’t think, “Why are they not coming to help me?” No: “They are engaged in their own business. It is my own, alone I shall go on with my duty, I won’t be always searching that someone must come and help me.” Mānadena, “They are doing, let them do their own duty; this is mine, I shall go alone with this.”

    amāninā mānadena kīrtaniya sadā hariḥ

    With this attitude we shall go on. Only with this sort of adjustment may my concentration be more and more intense; my confidence in Kṛṣṇa will be more and more increased and my duty will be purer if I couch myself in such a way. Kīrtaniya sadā Hari. Hari kīrtan.

    This will also make us conscious that such sorts of hindrances, obstacles, are almost sure to come to attack us. So you are already given this instruction, that whenever you begin, all these things will come to attack you. But you are already being given this instruction that if they come on your way, and it is almost sure that they will come, you are to deal with them in such a way.

    Gaura Haribol, Gaura Haribol, Gaura Haribol.

    Source

    Spoken 17 February 1982

  • Who is a Devotee of Lord Krishna?

    Who is a Devotee of Lord Krishna?

    Śrīla Bhakti Sundar Govinda Dev-Goswāmī Mahārāj affectionately reminds everyone of his foremost advice.

    Our mission is Śrī Chaitanya Sāraswat Maṭh. It was organised by Śrīla Guru Mahārāj for rescuing the conditioned souls from this mundane world with the proper medicine of Hari-nām-saṅkīrtan as given by Śrī Chaitanya Mahāprabhu. From this mission, we are trying as much as possible by us. I am very happy with my godbrothers, sisters, and disciples; they are trying heart and soul as possible to spread this Kṛṣṇa consciousness in the line of Śrīla Guru Mahārāj. Now all over the world there are so many centres, over fifty or maybe sixty. At every centre, devotees are trying to preach Kṛṣṇa consciousness, and so many devotees are attending in different ways to all the management of the centres. Not only in one country, but in several countries, sincere seekers are also joining this mission, and I have no doubt that they are trying heart and soul.

    But what is my worry? That also I must express because we have heard that to spread Kṛṣṇa consciousness there is a process, a process given by Śrīman Mahāprabhu: humility, tolerance, and giving honour to others. This is the first condition. Whoever will be a preacher, a manager, an administrator—or anything—they first must be qualified with these three qualities. Otherwise, our mission will be disturbed.

    You see, in the mouth the tongue and teeth live together, but when they cannot properly keep the balance between them, then the teeth bite the tongue. This is happening sometimes in some places, and seeing that, I am very worried.

    We should not only preach by mouth and say by mouth that we are surrendered souls. Really, how much are we surrendered to Lord Kṛṣṇa? Our quality depends upon this, and if we really are surrendered to Kṛṣṇa, then we must follow Kṛṣṇa’s instructions which He gave in His nondifferent form of Śrīman Mahāprabhu. We know that; we know Mahāprabhu’s philosophy, and we

    know Mahāprabhu’s teaching, but we must apply His method upon ourselves.

    tṛṇād api sunīchena taror iva sahiṣṇunā
    amāninā mānadena kīrtanīyaḥ sadā hariḥ

    Someone will be qualified for preaching and chanting the Holy Name of Lord when they have these three qualities. All over the world now people are disturbed by violence. In this world, we see that there are so many difficulties. Especially here in India where we are living, politics are disturbing the minds of simple people. Everywhere it is like this actually, but a preacher’s nature will be to make harmony with all circumstances, and a preacher can do that if they have these qualities:  humility, tolerance, and giving honour to others. Here, humility is stated first, but I give first preference to being tolerant. Humility, no doubt, is necessary, but we must be tolerant. Otherwise, we cannot proceed towards our life’s goal.

    These three qualities must be with all the devotees. ‘Devotees’, we use this word, but how much are we devoted to Lord Kṛṣṇa? And why are we not following the method Kṛṣṇa Himself gave us for our spiritual benefit and upliftment? We must try to do that.

    We are all suffering in this material world in different ways, but we can tolerate all that suffering. There is no other way, and we are tolerating it. Someone has no house, and someone has a house but inside it there is no proper adjustment with their family. In this way, different types of disturbance and selfishness disturb us greatly. But charity begins at home. We are preaching to others, but we are not preaching to ourselves! We have published a book as beautiful as Prapanna-jīvanāmṛtam, but how many times have we read it? And why can’t we control ourselves through this teaching of Śrī Chaitanya Mahāprabhu? Our Guru, our friends the Vaiṣṇavas, and Lord Kṛṣṇa are all always in favour of us. Still, we cannot make ourselves qualified? What is this?

    When this situation comes, then how will we preach happily? It is necessary for every devotee to remember: charity begins at home. First, they must try to maintain their own self with these three qualities: humility, tolerance, and giving honour to others. This method of Mahāprabhu is very essential in this Age of Kali because it is the age of quarrel and the teeth and tongue are always fighting. This is the experience of a man in his old age like me; my teeth are always cutting my tongue. Proper adjustment is necessary. Proper adjustment is the method of our religion, and for that we first must be tolerant.

    In another way, Śrīla Guru Mahārāj said, “Wait and see.” If anything wrong comes in front of you, any critical position or disturbance comes in front of you, then first wait and see: how much will it be harmful and how much will it be beneficial for you and others? First try to understand this, and also allow some time for the minds of others to be repaired. I am applying this method, and I am very happy with it.

    Once, a devotee was very disturbed and told me, “Mahārāj, this has happened, this has happened, and this has happened, and I cannot tolerate it. Etc. etc.” I did not answer him immediately. I waited, and after three or four days that devotee called me again and said, “Oh, everything is harmonised here. You don’t have to worry.” I did not even give an answer; I just choose to “wait and see”. There was a fight, but afterwards they made harmony, and called me again, “Mahārāj, it’s okay. No problem.”

    Śrīla Guru Mahārāj said, “Wait and see.” I also wrote on my door for everyone:

    sahasā vidadhīta na kriyām

    (Bharavi: Kirātārjunīyam, 2.30)

    Suddenly, not to do anything; suddenly, not to tell anything.”

    Without realisation, do not to take action, and with realisation—with humility and giving honour to others—your tolerance will give you a miracle result. All over the world I am preaching only this, and I am seeing how  happy everyone is.

    This year in Mexico, London, America, Holland, Russia, Italy, and Switzerland, everywhere I went, I preached only this.

    There is no alternative to chanting the Holy Name of the Lord.

    harer nāma harer nāma harer nāmaiva kevalam
    kalau nāsty eva nāsty eva nāsty eva gatir anyathā

    (Bṛhan-Nāradīya-purāṇa)

    Chanting the Holy Name is found in all societies. Someone may be Muslim, someone may be Christian, someone may be Buddhist, or someone may be a follower of any other religion, but everyone chants. In this Age of Kali, what has come down from above through Āmnāya, Veda, is this mantram, the Hare Kṛṣṇa mahāmantra. Śrīman Mahāprabhu, Kṛṣṇa Himself, gave this mahāmantra, and side by side He said that the mahāmantra has seven tongues [of fire] that can burn away everything bad—all nonsense and nescience—and give light to everyone, give joy to the hearts of all practitioners.

    paraṁ vijayate śrī-kṛṣṇa-saṅkīrtanam

    [“May Śrī Kṛṣṇa-saṅkīrtan be supremely victorious!”]

    But it is not just written in the book. With love and affection—wholeheartedly—we must try to chant and give honour to Mahāprabhu Śrī Chaitanyadev and His teaching of tṛṇād api sunīchena taror iva sahiṣṇunā
    amāninā mānadena
    . If we do not follow this method, then we will lose everything. It is the Age of Kali, but we have gotten a good opportunity through this human body in which there is full freedom to practise Kṛṣṇa consciousness, and this is the only way to get relief from the illusory environment. Why shall I not prepare myself? Why shall I not think, “It is my only duty and it is my life’s only goal; I must follow this!”? Mahāprabhu said,

    prabhu kahe, “kahilāṅ ei mahāmantra
    ihā japa’ giyā sabe kariyā nirbandha
    ihā haite sarva-siddhi ha-ibe sabāra
    sarva-kṣaṇa bala’ ithe vidhi nāhi āra”

    (Śrī Chaitanya-bhāgavata: Madhya-khaṇḍa, 23.77–8)

    There are no hard and fast rules and regulations, only love and affection. Faith is the basis. That I have said a thousand times, but with love and affection it is necessary to chant and follow Mahāprabhu’s procedure of humility, tolerance, and giving honour to others. I think it will be better if instead of Hari-nām we will think only of “humility, tolerance, and giving honour to others, humility, tolerance, and giving honour to others.” We can think only of this mantram of Mahāprabhu’s advice. Kīrtanīyaḥ sadā Hariḥ: someone who does that can chant properly the Holy Name of Lord which has descended from the transcendental world, which is the transcendental vibration form of the Lord in this material world. When we get a touch of that transcendental vibration within our heart, we must get relief from this material existence, and then we can live within the plane of devotion.

    We are always saying “devotees, devotees”. Who is devotee? I do not know! How can someone who cannot properly follow Mahāprabhu’s method say, “I am a

    devotee”? Mahāprabhu Himself showed the identity of the jīva-soul. Mahāprabhu did not say, “I am Kṛṣṇadās.” This is not our identification. We are not Hindu, we are not Muslim, and we are not Christian.

    gopī-bhartuḥ pada-kamalayor dāsa-dāsānudāsaḥ

    (Śrī Chaitanya-charitāmṛta: Madhya-līlā, 13.80)

    Mahāprabhu Himself said, “My identity is not that I am  Kṛṣṇadās but that I am the servant of the servant of the servant of Kṛṣṇa. That is My identity.” Why? This is humility. Mahāprabhu also tolerated so much, so many things, and Mahāprabhu advised us, “You must tolerate, and you must give honour to others! Collect your property with these three qualities, chant the Hare Kṛṣṇa mahāmantra without offence, and be happy.”

    Source

    18 December 2000

  • Humble Aspiration

    Humble Aspiration

    Śrīla Bhakti Rakṣak Śrīdhar Dev-Goswāmī Mahārāj explains the proper approach in devotion to the Lord.

    Student: We’ll see if we can engage them at least in Nāmābhās.

    Śrīla Śrīdhar Mahārāj: That is His will. We do not know. We must attempt our best. This is on our side. We look to our faith and leave the rest to Him. He is infinite, and He must engage them. He is benevolent and gracious. He will come to them.

    na hi kalyāṇa-kṛt kaśchid durgatiṁ tāta gachchhati 

    If we are sincere, then backing must come. We don’t know. No Vaiṣṇava says, “I am chanting Śuddha-nām.” They will all say, “This is Nāmāparādha, not Nāmābhās even. What capacity do I have? I am the meanest of the mean.”

    avatāra nāhi kahe “āmi avatāra”
    muṇi saba jāni’ kare lakṣaṇa vichāra
    (Śrī Chaitanya-charitāmṛta: Madhya-līlā, 24.352)

    The Avatār, the incarnation of the Lord, when He comes here, He generally does not say, “I am an Avatār.” But the ṛṣis are there, and according to the calculation of śāstra, they see that at this time an Avatār should come. So, they say He is an Avatār; the signs of an Avatār found in Him. It is the duty of the Āchāryas to say whether one is an Avatār or not from the śāstra. It is already given there by the Lord.

    A Vaiṣṇava does not say and cannot say, “I am a Vaiṣṇava.” He will say, “I am trying to become the servant of a Vaiṣṇava.” So much he can assert, that practically, “I want to be a servant of a Vaiṣṇava, Vaiṣṇava-dāsa. My aspiration, my highest end, is to become a servant of a Vaiṣṇava. I want that, nothing else. So many disturbances are in the mind. They are opposing me in reaching my goal that I shall be a servant of a Vaiṣṇava. So many obstacles are there.” That will be the real line of thinking of a true Vaiṣṇava. We are told like that, and we feel also like that. Hare Kṛṣṇa.

    We must always keep in mind that we are going to deal with the Infinite, the Absolute. Whoever asserts, “I have got it,” is very doubtful, we may take it safely to be a bogus thing. Those that assert themselves to be big, we must be suspicious about them because the very nature of things is this:

    tṛṇād api sunīchena taror iva sahiṣṇunā
    amāninā mānadena kīrtanīyaḥ sadā hariḥ

    [“The Name of the Lord should be chanted always by one who is more humble than a blade of grass, tolerant like a tree, respectful to others, and free from desire for respect.”]

    ayi nanda-tanuja kiṅkaraṁ
    patitaṁ māṁ viṣame bhavāmbudhau
    kṛpayā tava pāda-paṅkaja-
    sthita-dhūlī-sadṛśaṁ vichintaya

    [“O son of Nanda, please mercifully consider me, Your servant who has fallen into the terrible ocean of material existence, to be a particle of dust at Your lotus feet.”]

    It will be very kind of You to consider me a particle of dust at your feet.”

    This means that I am a vibhinnāṁśa [a separated part].

    mamaivāṁśo jīva-loke jīva-bhūtaḥ sanātanaḥ

    [“The eternal soul is a particle of Myself.”]

    I am not direct part of You, but a vibhinnāṁśa of the taṭastha-śakti; I am a particle of Your marginal potency, so I am like the dust at Your feet. It not even that I am similar, an atom of the same flesh; it is not that. I am not sajātīya [of the same nature] but vijātīya [of a distinct nature], a vibhinnāṁśa, a particle of dust of Your feet. Please consider me to be so. My highest ambition is there.” That is the direction we get from our masters: try to think in this way if you want to approach and make real progress towards the Absolute. You must couch your endeavour in such a way. Then, you will be able to hit the point.

    Source

    30 August 1981

  • The Key to Success

    The Key to Success

    Śrīla Bhakti Rakṣak Śrīdhar Dev-Goswāmī Mahārāj explains the spirit of humble service.

    In Advaya-jñān [the Absolute], there is harmony and adjustment between different stages and different natures of servitors; there is gradation. Although the absolute consideration (taṭasthā-vichār) is also there, that does not mean that we should be encouraged to be indifferent towards services of the lower order. We should not be. We should be careful against hating or undermining other servitors in their respective positions. We should be careful about this; it will be an offence to our Lord. We must not discourage those that are engaged in the services of a different layer. That will hamper our own cause. Rather, our tendency should be the opposite: we should hanker for services of the lower nature. That is the nature and law of the higher plane.

    Rādhārāṇī Herself says, “By the grace of Tulasī Devī, I came in contact with Kṛṣṇa.” Although She is always in the best eternal contact with Kṛṣṇa, She says, “By Tulasī Devī’s grace, I have attained such a position.” This is,

    tṛṇād api sunīchena taror iva sahiṣṇunā
    amāninā mānadena kīrtanīyaḥ sadā hariḥ

    [“One who is humbler than a blade of grass, is tolerant like a tree, is free from pride, and gives honour to others is qualified to always chant the Name of the Lord.”]

    This primary statement of Mahāprabhu has very deep, deeper, and the deepest value. Pride cannot take us to hold a high office. Our tendency and sympathy will always be for lower services. Rādhārāṇī Herself says, “My hankering is always towards the service of the divine feet. I want to serve as a maidservant, but because Kṛṣṇa wants to enjoy Me in another way, only to fulfil His earnest desire do I offer Myself in any way He likes. My tendency is only to serve His feet.” That is Her nature, and that is the nature of the whole hierarchy. And that is its beauty.

    Student: Mahārāj, if we should aspire for the lowest service, then does that mean we should aspire for śānta- or dāsya-rasa?

    Śrīla Śrīdhar Mahārāj: In that way there is an easy jurisdiction. That is, from a particular position, we are to come to a revelation. There, our aspiration will be confined to what is within easier reach. Sometimes they even say, “We are jealous of the position of the flute.” So, it goes like that sometimes. That is the key to success: humility—tṛṇād api sunīch taror api sahiṣṇu [“being humbler than a blade of grass and more tolerant than a tree”]. That is śaraṇāgati [surrender], and that is key to success. That will enhance the negative character of our life which can draw from Kṛṣṇa the maximum. Our tendency will always be to go towards the lower.

    sakhyāya te mama namo ’stu namo ’stu nityaṁ
    dāsyāya te mama raso ’stu raso ’stu satyam
    (Vilāpa-kusumāñjali: 16)

    This nature has been expressed by Dās Goswāmī: my real, internal, sincere tendency must go to the lower side, “I am unfit.” This increases our qualification, our quality, and this is the teaching of Mahāprabhu: tṛṇād api sunīchena. A long standing prospect is there in this verse:

    tṛṇād api sunīchena taror api sahiṣṇunā
    amāninā mānadena kīrtanīyaḥ sadā hariḥ

    This attitude will draw for you the greatest benefit. Don’t try to go up, but try to go down. That is the key to success in that domain: to be humble amongst the humble.

    Reference

    Spoke on 5 Spetember 1981.

  • Many Combined Together

    Many Combined Together

    Śrīla Bhakti Rakṣak Śrīdhar Dev-Goswāmī Mahārāj explains the importance of honour and tolerance within the Vaiṣṇava community.

    Student: Śrīla Prabhupād [Śrīla Bhaktivedānta Swāmī Mahārāj] said that among Vaiṣṇavas, there may be some difference of opinion because of everyone’s personal identity, but despite all personal differences, the cult of Kṛṣṇa consciousness must go on.

    Śrīla Śrīdhar Mahārāj: That is good, but there may be gradation. All may not preach from the same rank, the same plane. Some from a little superior plane, and some from a little inferior plane, are working to spread Kṛṣṇa consciousness. So, all are justified, but all are not of equal level. It should be conceived in this way. Hare Kṛṣṇa.

    Student: Śrīla Prabhupād also said that there are many disciples, but to judge who is actually a disciple, to divide the useful from the useless, one must measure the activity of such disciples in executing the will of their spiritual master. … But now in our society, the godbrothers, initiating or non-initiating, have different ideas about how to execute Prabhupād’s orders. … In Bhakti-rasāmṛta-sindhu, Śrīla Rūpa Goswāmī mentions the general principle of accepting an Āchārya, but he does not choose to mention the details because they may vary from one to another, and Śrīla Prabhupād mentions that Śrīla Rūpa Goswāmī doesn’t go into the details because there may be differences from one Āchārya and the other. He doesn’t choose to mention the details, but rather mentions the general principle that one must accept an Āchārya.

    Śrīla Śrīdhar Mahārāj: On vital points, there will be no differences, but on details, in unimportant matters, in regard to practice, there may be small differences. On the main points, there will be one common understanding.

    Student: Śrīla Prabhupād also mentions that a disciple must execute the order of the spiritual master but not offend other Vaiṣṇavas.

    Śrīla Śrīdhar Mahārāj: As much as possible, but sometimes also an elder brother may punish a younger brother. Good sense, however, must be there: sincerity. Because he wants good for the junior, he may chastise a younger brother, “Don’t do that. Do it in this way.” There should be room for that. If he is well meaning, then there is no harm if he punishes a junior. Nāhi kalyāṇa kaśchit durgatiṁ tāto gachchhati (Bg: 6.40). That is rather a form of affection. Punishment is also a form of affection. In vātsalya-rasa, it is used loosely, even Kṛṣṇa is not exempted. Ha ha.

    Student: But sometimes in our society the younger brothers want to chastise the older brothers. Knowing that there is variety and that there may be differences in ways of preaching, we have to accept these things. But in a practical sense, how do we remain unified with such differences? That has become a problem: to allow for difference and at the same time remain unified.

    Śrīla Śrīdhar Mahārāj: The spirit of tolerance should be spread amongst us. If we want to work in a group—engage in saṅkīrtan—then this sort of qualification is essential and inevitable: tṛṇād api sunīch, taror api sahiṣṇu, amāni, mānadā [being more humble than a blade of grass, more tolerant than a tree, free from desire for honour, and inclined to give honour to others]. These characteristics should be maintained and given more attention if we want to work in a group. We must be humble and tolerant, otherwise we cannot take up any big work in a combined way. Amāni and mānadā: we must give honour and not desire it for ourselves. These four qualifications are necessary if we want to go on with saṅkīrtan: samyak kīrtan [complete kīrtan].

    What is saṅkīrtan? This Śrīla Jīva Goswāmī’s explanation:

    bahubhir militvā yat kīrtanam tad eva saṅkīrtanam

    [“Kīrtan in which many are combined together is saṅkīrtan.”]

    If you want to go on in that process, then these qualifications should be encouraged within the organisation: the practices of humility and tolerance, the tendency to give honour to others, and not seeking honour for oneself. Especially pratiṣṭhā, the hitch is there: in fame and maintaining one’s own position. By attempting to maintain our own position, we cannot keep our position. This principle should be taught within the organisation. By seeking position, we will not attain position. But sometimes by not seeking and rather giving position to others, we can get position. So, amāni and mānadā: giving honour to others and not desiring it for oneself. The hitch, the main hitch, is there. First humility, then tolerance, then giving position to others, and then not wanting position for oneself. With these qualities, we can go on together. This must be given more stress.

    śr-kṛṣṇa‑krtane yadi mnasa tohra
    parama yatane thi labha adhikra
    (Gītāvalī: Śikṣāṣṭakam, 3.1)

    [““If you want to chant the Name, then first, with great care, become qualified.”]

    If you really want to grow the saṅkīrtan, then these four qualifications are indispensably necessary for everyone.

    ṭṛṇdhika hna, dna, akiñchana chhra
    pane mnabi sad chhḍi’ ahakra

    [“Give up your false ego, and always consider yourself lower than grass, needy, poor, and mean.”]

    vṛkṣa‑sama kṣam-guṇa karabi sdhana
    pratihis tyaji’ anye karabi plana

    [“Practise tolerance like a tree, leave aside revenge, and nurture others.”]

    jvana-nirvhe ne udvega n dibe
    para-upakre nija-sukha psaribe

    [“Do not trouble others for your own upkeep. Forget your own happiness in the course of helping others.”

    ha-ile‑o sarva-guṇe guṇ mahśaya
    pratiṣṭh chhḍi’ kara amn hṛdaya

    [“Even if you are honourable and qualified with all qualities, give up desire for prestige and remain prideless at heart.”]

    kṛṣṇa‑adhiṣṭhna sarva‑jve jni’ sad
    karabi sammna sabe dare sarvad

    [“Knowing Kṛṣṇa is eternally present within every soul, always respectfully honour everyone.”]

    dainya, dayā, anye māna, pratiṣṭhā-varjana
    chāri guṇe guṇī hai’ karaha kīrtana

    [“Humility, compassion, honouring others, and giving up prestige—become qualified with these four qualities and engage in kīrtan.”]

    bhakati-vinoda kā̐di’ bale prabhu-pāya
    “heno adhikāra kabe dibe he amāya”

    [“Crying at the feet of the Lord, Bhakti Vinod says, ‘O Lord! When will You give me these qualifications?’”]

    This attitude should be preached, and in this way we should create a favourable atmosphere so we can go on with saṅkīrtan. Bahubhir militvā: with many combined in one campaign, we can move on. Hare Kṛṣṇa.

    Reference

    Spoken on 22 February 1981.